A sex roleplay workshop focused around your fantasies, taboos, and self-expression.
Roleplay offers a way to explore erotic fantasies that can be playful, liberating, revealing, and sometimes intense. They're a powerful way to get away from established patterns and discover new aspects of yourself and your sexuality. And they're a very compelling way of exploring taboos - which, let's face it, we all have.
This sex roleplay workshop begins with some general information and case studies about role-play, highlighting how things like consent, safe-words, safety, pre-negotiation, and public consent fit into role-play. Then, we head off in the direction of inner-work around your erotic fantasies, because that's where the juice is!
We meander through the things that interest you, compel you, and attract your attention, and we milk them for ideas on how they might work as a sexual roleplay - we tap into your core erotic themes, and your fantasies.
Finally (and optionally - participation is not mandatory), we work out how to break those themes down into small, bite-size pieces, and we forge them into a simple roleplay. For the optional practice, couples are welcome to work together for 45 minutes each, and singles are put in three different groups of three people, for 30 minutes each. The emphasis is on going slowly, rather than diving in the deep end; however, tapping into our fantasies and playing them out can often be very juicy and deep work!
Your practice piece includes negotiation and consent-setting processes, and debriefing.
It is strongly recommended you do Curious Creatures’ 'Adventurous Touch & Intimacy' (formerly 'Kink 101') or 'Curiosity' workshop before this one. However, if you’re familiar with the concepts on the Consent Card, and in particular using the safe-words of green, orange, and red, then you’ll probably be comfortable in Roleplay Your Way.
If you're interested in this workshop you may want to check out Adventurous Touch & Intimacy (formerly 'Kink 101'), its' follow-on Show Me The Toys (formerly 'Kink 102'), A Curious Approach to Spanking, and the Curiosity workshop and play-space.
This sex roleplay workshop begins with some general information and case studies about role-play, highlighting how things like consent, safe-words, safety, pre-negotiation, and public consent fit into role-play. Then, we head off in the direction of inner-work around your erotic fantasies, because that's where the juice is!
We meander through the things that interest you, compel you, and attract your attention, and we milk them for ideas on how they might work as a sexual roleplay - we tap into your core erotic themes, and your fantasies.
Finally (and optionally - participation is not mandatory), we work out how to break those themes down into small, bite-size pieces, and we forge them into a simple roleplay. For the optional practice, couples are welcome to work together for 45 minutes each, and singles are put in three different groups of three people, for 30 minutes each. The emphasis is on going slowly, rather than diving in the deep end; however, tapping into our fantasies and playing them out can often be very juicy and deep work!
Your practice piece includes negotiation and consent-setting processes, and debriefing.
It is strongly recommended you do Curious Creatures’ 'Adventurous Touch & Intimacy' (formerly 'Kink 101') or 'Curiosity' workshop before this one. However, if you’re familiar with the concepts on the Consent Card, and in particular using the safe-words of green, orange, and red, then you’ll probably be comfortable in Roleplay Your Way.
If you're interested in this workshop you may want to check out Adventurous Touch & Intimacy (formerly 'Kink 101'), its' follow-on Show Me The Toys (formerly 'Kink 102'), A Curious Approach to Spanking, and the Curiosity workshop and play-space.
Tickets, Logistics, and Late Policy:
Our 'rounds' of tickets are really simple: they're all the same, except that some of them are cheaper, to encourage you to book in early (because it makes a huge difference to us in terms of planning). Round One tickets are similar to 'early bird' tickets, and make up almost half of all ticket sales. Round Two tickets, slightly more expensive than Round One, also make up almost half of all ticket sales. Round Three tickets are generally only there once we're close to being sold out, but can squeeze in a late-comer or two. If you're feeling generous, you can buy whatever ticket feels right, but in general, folks buy the cheapest ones available. Tickets range in price from $75 to $95, per person. It is never possible to buy tickets on the door, nor by paying with cash. See our FAQ for more information on this. Workshops start at the advertised time, and doors will be locked ten minutes later. This is because late arrivals interrupt the dynamic of the group, and will miss crucial safety information. |
To book into this workshop...
To book into any Curious Creatures workshop, we have a once-off application process that takes less than five minutes. Once you've done it, we will give you a level of access, and you can then book into as many workshops as you wish at that level of access. You can read more about this application process here. To apply, click here now. This workshop requires 'Singles' (or higher) access level. If you've already applied and received access, you can access the ticket-booking link here:
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WHO THIS IS FOR AND NOT FOR...
INTENSITY: You can keep your roleplay capped at whatever level is right for you at the time. But some may take it to some juicy territory. So, two or three out of four chillies.
WHO FOR: Anyone with an interest in roleplay, particularly as it fits within self-development or self-expression. It’s recommended that you’ve already done Curious Creatures’ workshop ‘Adventurous Touch & Intimacy' (formerly 'Kink 101’), or ‘Curiosity’, before this one.
WHO NOT FOR: Not for people taking their first steps into exploring sexuality. And see fine-print for general workshop exclusions.
WHAT EXERCISES / ACTIVITIES?: Inner work (reflecting on your sexual interests). Couples: 45 minutes each of roleplay practice. Singles: Three rounds of practicing roleplay (including one built around your interests, and two around other people’s interests).
WILL THERE BE PARTNER WORK?: Yes. Couples can work together, and singles work in three different groups of three.
HOW WILL PARTNERING BE DONE?: Using a random-number system.
CAN YOU WORK WITH AN EXISTING PARTNER / FRIEND?: Yes, couples can. Singles will be put into trios using a random number system.
NUDITY: It is possible some participants will use nudity in their practical exercise, but there is no expectation that you or anyone will get naked, nor is there a focus on nudity.
SEXUAL CONTENT: The workshop is mostly geared around roleplay as a form of sexual expression. Your practical exercise does not need to include sexuality or arousal, however.
COMMITMENT: If you decide that, after the theory and inner-work, the practical exercise is not for you, you are welcome to leave. The workshop will still have given you insight into how role-play is done.
RATIO EXPERIENTIAL / THEORETICAL: The first ~third of the workshop is theory and discussion. The second ~third is guided inner-work, helping you to explore your fantasies and erotic themes. The final ~third is a structured roleplay practice.
BRING: A water bottle, whatever snacks you might need.
WEAR: Whatever makes you comfortable - it is a 'non-scene' event, meaning you don't have to dress up. If you already have a hunch what your sex roleplay themes might be, you are welcome to bring clothing or accessories in support of that.
WHO FOR: Anyone with an interest in roleplay, particularly as it fits within self-development or self-expression. It’s recommended that you’ve already done Curious Creatures’ workshop ‘Adventurous Touch & Intimacy' (formerly 'Kink 101’), or ‘Curiosity’, before this one.
WHO NOT FOR: Not for people taking their first steps into exploring sexuality. And see fine-print for general workshop exclusions.
WHAT EXERCISES / ACTIVITIES?: Inner work (reflecting on your sexual interests). Couples: 45 minutes each of roleplay practice. Singles: Three rounds of practicing roleplay (including one built around your interests, and two around other people’s interests).
WILL THERE BE PARTNER WORK?: Yes. Couples can work together, and singles work in three different groups of three.
HOW WILL PARTNERING BE DONE?: Using a random-number system.
CAN YOU WORK WITH AN EXISTING PARTNER / FRIEND?: Yes, couples can. Singles will be put into trios using a random number system.
NUDITY: It is possible some participants will use nudity in their practical exercise, but there is no expectation that you or anyone will get naked, nor is there a focus on nudity.
SEXUAL CONTENT: The workshop is mostly geared around roleplay as a form of sexual expression. Your practical exercise does not need to include sexuality or arousal, however.
COMMITMENT: If you decide that, after the theory and inner-work, the practical exercise is not for you, you are welcome to leave. The workshop will still have given you insight into how role-play is done.
RATIO EXPERIENTIAL / THEORETICAL: The first ~third of the workshop is theory and discussion. The second ~third is guided inner-work, helping you to explore your fantasies and erotic themes. The final ~third is a structured roleplay practice.
BRING: A water bottle, whatever snacks you might need.
WEAR: Whatever makes you comfortable - it is a 'non-scene' event, meaning you don't have to dress up. If you already have a hunch what your sex roleplay themes might be, you are welcome to bring clothing or accessories in support of that.
"This helps my sexual journey heaps. Thank you!"
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"Rog is an exceptional facilitator. He's inclusive and empathetic."
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"It was awesome. I loved the actual practice after receiving all the tips of how to do it safely. I liked how Rog made all the different kinks accessible by modeling not-judging-them when they came up in conversation, and being enthusiastic about them (eg. age play, animal roleplay, consensual non-consent etc)."
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"This workshop has helped me start approaching my deepest fantasies in real life, by taking baby steps as modelled in the exercises and group roleplay. So ... thank you for helping me make my kinky dreams come true!"
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"This workshop was fantastic - really wasn't sure if it would be for me (and was quite anxious about it) but the approximations/baby steps towards a scene were particularly helpful. I also had a lot of fun stepping outside my comfort zone to play in other people's fantasies - even when they didn't flip my switches, it was very entertaining to be able to indulge other people's fantasies :D"
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"I've now done this workshop 3 times because I get so much out of it (and I'm at a different stage of growth each time thanks to what I've practiced from the time before). I loved doing it as a couple - that was very intimate, and helped me trustfully explore some very edgy territory. I've also loved doing it as a single, especially being exposed to fantasies/roleplays that I've never considered for myself (and finding these so juicy). The shame/fear I used to feel around my 'most taboo' fantasies is almost gone, as I face them head-on, and play with them mindfully. What's there now is a sense of fun, curiosity, arousal, and gratitude."
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"Rog is an exceptional facilitator. He's inclusive and empathetic."
•
"It was awesome. I loved the actual practice after receiving all the tips of how to do it safely. I liked how Rog made all the different kinks accessible by modeling not-judging-them when they came up in conversation, and being enthusiastic about them (eg. age play, animal roleplay, consensual non-consent etc)."
•
"This workshop has helped me start approaching my deepest fantasies in real life, by taking baby steps as modelled in the exercises and group roleplay. So ... thank you for helping me make my kinky dreams come true!"
•
"This workshop was fantastic - really wasn't sure if it would be for me (and was quite anxious about it) but the approximations/baby steps towards a scene were particularly helpful. I also had a lot of fun stepping outside my comfort zone to play in other people's fantasies - even when they didn't flip my switches, it was very entertaining to be able to indulge other people's fantasies :D"
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"I've now done this workshop 3 times because I get so much out of it (and I'm at a different stage of growth each time thanks to what I've practiced from the time before). I loved doing it as a couple - that was very intimate, and helped me trustfully explore some very edgy territory. I've also loved doing it as a single, especially being exposed to fantasies/roleplays that I've never considered for myself (and finding these so juicy). The shame/fear I used to feel around my 'most taboo' fantasies is almost gone, as I face them head-on, and play with them mindfully. What's there now is a sense of fun, curiosity, arousal, and gratitude."