This two-day verison of our popular workshop - normally a fact-paced, one-day format - is a special opportunity to slow down, connect and go a lot deeper.
*For the shorter 1-day version of this workshop see Adventurous Touch & Intimacy
This two-day version of our popular workshop - normally a fast-paced one-day format - is a special opportunity to slow down, connect, and go a lot deeper.
It will appeal to people that have already done the one-day version, but would like to refresh their knowledge and go deeper with their experiences. It will appeal to people that haven't yet done the one-day version, and who are drawn to the idea of being able to more thoroughly immerse themselves in the material. Lastly, it will appeal to those that seek a higher level of contact with other people and community, since there will be many more opportunities to find and connect with like-minded folks.
Existing exercises will be extended and deepened, and given more generous integration time. Completely new exercises and activities have also been added.
As described in the one-day version:
"If you’re curious about forms of play and intimacy that are more adventurous, or you’ve already played with some things that might be regarded as kinky or from the world of BDSM but want more of a grounding in how to do it well, then this workshop is for you. It will provide you with the knowledge and attitude you need to pursue your interests safely, at your own pace, while giving you a feel for what is possible. It will present information in a way that is positive, accessible, fun, and empowering.
You don't need any background knowledge or experience in kink or BDSM (but at the same time, people that do have experience also report gaining a lot from this workshop). The subject material is approached with a sense of humor and a deep respect for getting the fundamentals correct first. The workshop will establish:
We'll have an introduction to: Language and concepts; power play; issuing instructions; scene structure; basic rope-work; communication, and negotiating a scene; basic impact play; and safety and safe-words."
In addition, this two-day immersion brings in:
Times are Saturday 10am - 5pm (with option of staying together for dinner), and Sunday 10am - 4pm.
Lunch breaks are 90 minutes.
Numbers are limited to 30 people in support of creating an intimate and familiar sense of safety. Tickets will be available for couples (where you do most exercises, and certainly the more intimate ones, exclusively with the person you arrive with) and singles (on a mixed-gender basis, meaning you'll be randomly paired at the start of each exercise without regard to gender). All CC exercises are designed so that you can do them to a simple and cautious level, while still gaining the experience. In this two-day version, the time and opportunity - but not the obligation! - exists to take things to deeper levels. And as with all Curious Creatures workshops, all exercises will be described and demonstrated before you decide to participate.
Faclitator: Roger Butler
Version: For couples and singles (mixed gender pairings)
Adventurous Touch and Intimacy is presented by Roger Butler, who’s been the principal facilitator and driving force behind Curious Creatures for nine years. Their training is in sexuality, facilitation, and counselling, and they’re easily one of Australia’s most prolific sexuality facilitators. Find out more about Rog and the team.
This is one of ~30 workshops offered by Curious Creatures (Australia’s biggest provider in the field). If you’re interested in this event you may want to check out our related in-person workshops: Roleplay Your Way and Fun Little Sex Games.
It will appeal to people that have already done the one-day version, but would like to refresh their knowledge and go deeper with their experiences. It will appeal to people that haven't yet done the one-day version, and who are drawn to the idea of being able to more thoroughly immerse themselves in the material. Lastly, it will appeal to those that seek a higher level of contact with other people and community, since there will be many more opportunities to find and connect with like-minded folks.
Existing exercises will be extended and deepened, and given more generous integration time. Completely new exercises and activities have also been added.
As described in the one-day version:
"If you’re curious about forms of play and intimacy that are more adventurous, or you’ve already played with some things that might be regarded as kinky or from the world of BDSM but want more of a grounding in how to do it well, then this workshop is for you. It will provide you with the knowledge and attitude you need to pursue your interests safely, at your own pace, while giving you a feel for what is possible. It will present information in a way that is positive, accessible, fun, and empowering.
You don't need any background knowledge or experience in kink or BDSM (but at the same time, people that do have experience also report gaining a lot from this workshop). The subject material is approached with a sense of humor and a deep respect for getting the fundamentals correct first. The workshop will establish:
- A quick look at the types of play and intimacy that are available – what’s possible, what it’s about, and why people like it.
- Safety – what parts of your mind and body are good to play with, and what you should leave alone. We cover information relating to how to negotiate play in a lot of detail, and we touch on how to pick a wickedly good play partner from one to avoid.
- Adventurous play for those in relationships: Plenty of things to sustainably keep play with a long-term partner exciting.
- A discovery of your own pleasure, pain, and limitations, and simple techniques to provide this feedback to a partner.
- Roles and jargon – what does it all mean, and where do you fit in?
- The curve of a typical scene: Negotiation, foreplay, warm-up, peak, cool-down, and after-care.
- How communication is your gateway to a world of adventure.
We'll have an introduction to: Language and concepts; power play; issuing instructions; scene structure; basic rope-work; communication, and negotiating a scene; basic impact play; and safety and safe-words."
In addition, this two-day immersion brings in:
- Theory and an exercise in running / holding a scene (including a simple structure on how to cheat and control scenes easily)
- The exercise 'Indulgent Time In The Middle'
- Many more opportunities to connect, listen, and share (in large and small groups)
- Demonstrations
- The optional opportunity for dinner together on Saturday evening
Times are Saturday 10am - 5pm (with option of staying together for dinner), and Sunday 10am - 4pm.
Lunch breaks are 90 minutes.
Numbers are limited to 30 people in support of creating an intimate and familiar sense of safety. Tickets will be available for couples (where you do most exercises, and certainly the more intimate ones, exclusively with the person you arrive with) and singles (on a mixed-gender basis, meaning you'll be randomly paired at the start of each exercise without regard to gender). All CC exercises are designed so that you can do them to a simple and cautious level, while still gaining the experience. In this two-day version, the time and opportunity - but not the obligation! - exists to take things to deeper levels. And as with all Curious Creatures workshops, all exercises will be described and demonstrated before you decide to participate.
Faclitator: Roger Butler
Version: For couples and singles (mixed gender pairings)
Adventurous Touch and Intimacy is presented by Roger Butler, who’s been the principal facilitator and driving force behind Curious Creatures for nine years. Their training is in sexuality, facilitation, and counselling, and they’re easily one of Australia’s most prolific sexuality facilitators. Find out more about Rog and the team.
This is one of ~30 workshops offered by Curious Creatures (Australia’s biggest provider in the field). If you’re interested in this event you may want to check out our related in-person workshops: Roleplay Your Way and Fun Little Sex Games.
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Tickets
Our 'rounds' of tickets are really simple: they're all the same, except that some of them are cheaper, to encourage you to book in early (because it makes a huge difference to us in terms of planning). Round One tickets are similar to 'early bird' tickets, and make up almost half of all ticket sales. Round Two tickets, slightly more expensive than Round One, also make up almost half of all ticket sales. Round Three tickets are generally only there once we're close to being sold out, but can squeeze in a late-comer or two. If you're feeling generous, you can buy whatever ticket feels right, but in general, folks buy the cheapest ones available. For this workshop, tickets range in price from $270 to $330, per person (a couples ticket price is for two people to attend). Logistics LATE POLICY: Unless otherwise stated, workshops start at the advertised time, and doors will be locked ten minutes later. This is because late arrivals interrupt the dynamic of the group, and will miss crucial safety information. TICKETS ON DOOR?: All workshop tickets must be pre-purchased online, before the event. It is never possible to pay cash at the door; you will be turned away. More info at https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/faq.html |
To book into this workshop...
To book into any Curious Creatures workshop, we have a once-off application process that takes less than five minutes. Once you've done it, we will give you a level of access, and you can then book into as many workshops as you wish at that level of access. You can read more about this application process here. To apply, click here now. The couples version of this workshop requires 'Normal' access or higher. The singles version requires 'Singles' or higher. If you've already applied and received access, you can access the ticket-booking link here:
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WHO IS THIS FOR AND NOT FOR...
Version for Couples and Singles (paired with any gender):
INTENSITY: Three out of four chillies. Most people experience this workshop as a gentle introduction. The two-day version allows for more depth. Some people experience elements of kink to be challenging..
WHO FOR: The curious. Couples and singles where one or both parties have played a little, and want more information and guidance. Couples and singles who haven't played with kink, but might like to. Couples of any gender or sexual orientation.
WHO NOT FOR: Singles not interested in doing pair-work exercises with people of any gender (noting that all exercises can be done to a cautious, safe level, or taken in more adventurous directions at your discretion).
WHAT EXERCISES / ACTIVITIES?: Verbal sharing of interests, issuing instructions, green / orange / red touch exercise, longer version of simple chest-harness and blindfold, impact play warm up, structured group touch activity, other additions.
WILL THERE BE PAIR-WORK? Yes.
HOW WILL PAIRING BE DONE? Couples (of any gender or sexual orientation) are welcome, and work exclusively with each other. (Couples that want to play with other people may do so). For singles, after exercises are described and demonstrated, if you wish to participate, you will be randomly paired with someone just for that exercise. Please note, all exercises can be taken only to the level that's right for you at the time.
CAN YOU WORK EXCLUSIVELY WITH ONE PARTNER? Yes, if you purchase a ‘couples’ ticket, you can work exclusively with the person you arrive with (such as a partner, friend, etc.).
NUDITY: Some participants may choose to work with partial nudity for some exercises but this is not an expectation.
SEXUAL CONTENT: The workshop is primarily about various forms of sexual expression.
COMMITMENT: You may sit out of any activity, or participate only to a level that's right for you.
RATIO OF DISCUSSION TO EXPERIENTIAL: About 50/50 percent.
BRING: Water bottle, your own snacks.
WEAR: Whatever you're comfortable in. There is no dress code.
INTENSITY: Three out of four chillies. Most people experience this workshop as a gentle introduction. The two-day version allows for more depth. Some people experience elements of kink to be challenging..
WHO FOR: The curious. Couples and singles where one or both parties have played a little, and want more information and guidance. Couples and singles who haven't played with kink, but might like to. Couples of any gender or sexual orientation.
WHO NOT FOR: Singles not interested in doing pair-work exercises with people of any gender (noting that all exercises can be done to a cautious, safe level, or taken in more adventurous directions at your discretion).
WHAT EXERCISES / ACTIVITIES?: Verbal sharing of interests, issuing instructions, green / orange / red touch exercise, longer version of simple chest-harness and blindfold, impact play warm up, structured group touch activity, other additions.
WILL THERE BE PAIR-WORK? Yes.
HOW WILL PAIRING BE DONE? Couples (of any gender or sexual orientation) are welcome, and work exclusively with each other. (Couples that want to play with other people may do so). For singles, after exercises are described and demonstrated, if you wish to participate, you will be randomly paired with someone just for that exercise. Please note, all exercises can be taken only to the level that's right for you at the time.
CAN YOU WORK EXCLUSIVELY WITH ONE PARTNER? Yes, if you purchase a ‘couples’ ticket, you can work exclusively with the person you arrive with (such as a partner, friend, etc.).
NUDITY: Some participants may choose to work with partial nudity for some exercises but this is not an expectation.
SEXUAL CONTENT: The workshop is primarily about various forms of sexual expression.
COMMITMENT: You may sit out of any activity, or participate only to a level that's right for you.
RATIO OF DISCUSSION TO EXPERIENTIAL: About 50/50 percent.
BRING: Water bottle, your own snacks.
WEAR: Whatever you're comfortable in. There is no dress code.
Testimonials from Adventurous Touch & Intimacy (the 1-day version)
"Fantastic, fun, informative, and demystifying. Rog provided a very safe and friendly environment to explore and learn. Just the right balance of theory and practice."
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"I liked everything about the workshop. It opened my eyes and helped lessen my concerns about my interest in Kink. It was a great environment. The facilitators were extremely welcoming and friendly which I felt was important to help ease nerves."
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"I loved everything about it - no negatives to think of. I can't tell you the last time I had so much fun on a Saturday. I felt very safe and able to ask questions without judgement, really enjoyed being in the space and the other participants were fantastic. Roger really put us at ease and guided us well. I'll be back."
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"My partner and I had a fantastic workshop. We didn't know if kink would be our thing but this was an easy and intriguing introduction for us and we want to explore more - thanks!"
•
"I thoroughly enjoyed the workshop. It not only covered the basics but also provided a better understanding as to why things such as consent can be very enjoyable."
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"A revelation. It was comfortably confronting, it felt safe, and was inspiring. By doing this workshop my husband and I found ways to talk about things we'd kept locked inside for 30 years of our marriage. I am confident we will be enjoying the benefits of this exploration for the rest of our lives together."
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"it was really great to learn this stuff properly in a safe, well thought through structured program. i've dabbled with a few partners that i've met through tinder and never felt safe or supported so this i found quite empowering so hopefully i can find some better, more enlightened partners soon to use all my new found knowledge on! I also love how enthusiastic, open, honest and sharing the facilitators are. It really helped everyone get into the spirit of it and let down our [defenses]"
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"Brilliant in every aspect."
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"It was amazing. I was nervous coming in feeling really inexperienced. Everything was done so well and felt so inclusive and welcoming. I gained a whole new understanding about what Kink actually is. I loved the examples, the exercises, the teacher and the group. No complaints! Can’t wait to come to more! Have been recommending it to EVERYONE haha"
•
"It was great! I liked the emphasis on consent, information, negotiation, safety, and being respectful of/to your partner. Rog is a wonderful facilitator - sharing their knowledge so freely and helping us all feel so comfortable."
•
"It was a fabulous refresher for myself. I liked Rog's presenting style and the way the group was run. The workshop was very inclusive and there was a lovely vibe in the room."
•
"It was inviting, comfortable and exactly what I needed."
•
"The workshop is light and playful whilst clearly and consciously designed to be a very safe and respectful place that's accessible for beginners but also for those who approach learning with a beginners mind. There is freedom with your level of participation and the activities slowly notch up a gear. The time flew by quickly however I gained so much self erotic awareness and felt so supported by the community scaffold, allowing me to become much more open with my desires- it was truly a transformative experience. I left with tools for life, new connections and plenty of inspiration!"
•
"Excellent! 5 out of 5 star experience."
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"Workshop was a fantastic introduction to the world of Kink. I really enjoyed learning the communication tools and the practical exercises. Rog was a fantastic, engaging and knowledgeable facilitator."
•
"It was enlightening, it respectfully pushed me out of my comfort zone, and I feel armed with confidence heading in to the world of kink."
•
"Overall really good. I learnt a lot of things that I was hoping to learn about and the atmosphere was very relaxed and comfortable."
•
"Great. Liberating. The personal journey continues. An easy, informative, enjoyable introduction to the subject."
•
"We both thoroughly enjoyed the workshop and got something from it. I thought Rog was the perfect facilitator - knowledgeable, great at opening up discussion and sensitive to the needs of the group."
"Fantastic, fun, informative, and demystifying. Rog provided a very safe and friendly environment to explore and learn. Just the right balance of theory and practice."
•
"I liked everything about the workshop. It opened my eyes and helped lessen my concerns about my interest in Kink. It was a great environment. The facilitators were extremely welcoming and friendly which I felt was important to help ease nerves."
•
"I loved everything about it - no negatives to think of. I can't tell you the last time I had so much fun on a Saturday. I felt very safe and able to ask questions without judgement, really enjoyed being in the space and the other participants were fantastic. Roger really put us at ease and guided us well. I'll be back."
•
"My partner and I had a fantastic workshop. We didn't know if kink would be our thing but this was an easy and intriguing introduction for us and we want to explore more - thanks!"
•
"I thoroughly enjoyed the workshop. It not only covered the basics but also provided a better understanding as to why things such as consent can be very enjoyable."
•
"A revelation. It was comfortably confronting, it felt safe, and was inspiring. By doing this workshop my husband and I found ways to talk about things we'd kept locked inside for 30 years of our marriage. I am confident we will be enjoying the benefits of this exploration for the rest of our lives together."
•
"it was really great to learn this stuff properly in a safe, well thought through structured program. i've dabbled with a few partners that i've met through tinder and never felt safe or supported so this i found quite empowering so hopefully i can find some better, more enlightened partners soon to use all my new found knowledge on! I also love how enthusiastic, open, honest and sharing the facilitators are. It really helped everyone get into the spirit of it and let down our [defenses]"
•
"Brilliant in every aspect."
•
"It was amazing. I was nervous coming in feeling really inexperienced. Everything was done so well and felt so inclusive and welcoming. I gained a whole new understanding about what Kink actually is. I loved the examples, the exercises, the teacher and the group. No complaints! Can’t wait to come to more! Have been recommending it to EVERYONE haha"
•
"It was great! I liked the emphasis on consent, information, negotiation, safety, and being respectful of/to your partner. Rog is a wonderful facilitator - sharing their knowledge so freely and helping us all feel so comfortable."
•
"It was a fabulous refresher for myself. I liked Rog's presenting style and the way the group was run. The workshop was very inclusive and there was a lovely vibe in the room."
•
"It was inviting, comfortable and exactly what I needed."
•
"The workshop is light and playful whilst clearly and consciously designed to be a very safe and respectful place that's accessible for beginners but also for those who approach learning with a beginners mind. There is freedom with your level of participation and the activities slowly notch up a gear. The time flew by quickly however I gained so much self erotic awareness and felt so supported by the community scaffold, allowing me to become much more open with my desires- it was truly a transformative experience. I left with tools for life, new connections and plenty of inspiration!"
•
"Excellent! 5 out of 5 star experience."
•
"Workshop was a fantastic introduction to the world of Kink. I really enjoyed learning the communication tools and the practical exercises. Rog was a fantastic, engaging and knowledgeable facilitator."
•
"It was enlightening, it respectfully pushed me out of my comfort zone, and I feel armed with confidence heading in to the world of kink."
•
"Overall really good. I learnt a lot of things that I was hoping to learn about and the atmosphere was very relaxed and comfortable."
•
"Great. Liberating. The personal journey continues. An easy, informative, enjoyable introduction to the subject."
•
"We both thoroughly enjoyed the workshop and got something from it. I thought Rog was the perfect facilitator - knowledgeable, great at opening up discussion and sensitive to the needs of the group."