HAVE YOU EVER WANTED TO HAVE SEX THAT JUST WORKS?
Haven't we all! Unfortunately, most of us have been fed a whopping lie about how to make that happen.
We're taught that sex should just magically unfold, and that the right partner should just somehow know exactly how you like to be touched, from moment to moment. And that we, somehow, are meant to know exactly what they like.
While that does work a very small amount of the time, mostly, this approach just leaves us in the dark. It's hit-and-miss, at best!
We're taught that sex should just magically unfold, and that the right partner should just somehow know exactly how you like to be touched, from moment to moment. And that we, somehow, are meant to know exactly what they like.
While that does work a very small amount of the time, mostly, this approach just leaves us in the dark. It's hit-and-miss, at best!
ENTER THE CONSENT CARDS!
Curious Creatures (sexuality educators) have come to the rescue by creating our now famous Consent Cards - one for 'general sexual activities', and one for 'kinky sex'. The same size as a credit-card, people keep them in their wallets, by the bed, stuck on the fridge... they've also been used as a gift for that person that's already got (nearly) everything.
The card lists questions to go through with a partner before sex, play, an intricate 'scene', or even a drive to the country. Sometimes all the questions need answers, sometimes only some make sense. Our suggestion is to go through the relevant card in full when you're playing with someone new, or doing something adventurous... Then, after that, as required.
Asking and answering these questions together means that your intimacy with someone stands a much better chance of going well. The simple truth is that if you're able to ask for what you want, you've got a much better chance of getting it. And once it's started, the neat little communication tools on these cards keep things headed in the right direction.
The questions are based on our experience of teaching over 10,000 people how to have better sex. They draw on the experience of the world's best sex educators, and they've been used to make every conceivable type of activity go better - from a simple kiss, through to the most adventurous and elaborate act you can think of. And they're as relevant to people having a one-night stand as they are people that have been intimate for decades.
The card for 'general sexual activities' is the spot to start for most people. This works like a primer in sex-positivity, consent, and communication on a card. The card for 'kinky sex' is for those wanting to be more adventurous.
FREE ACCESS
We've reproduced them below, in full, because we believe everyone should have free access to these fundamental tools.
BUY CONSENT CARDS
You can also buy them; priced from $2 to $9 AUD each (depending on what quantity you're after), we're only aiming to cover the production cost and shipping.
The card lists questions to go through with a partner before sex, play, an intricate 'scene', or even a drive to the country. Sometimes all the questions need answers, sometimes only some make sense. Our suggestion is to go through the relevant card in full when you're playing with someone new, or doing something adventurous... Then, after that, as required.
Asking and answering these questions together means that your intimacy with someone stands a much better chance of going well. The simple truth is that if you're able to ask for what you want, you've got a much better chance of getting it. And once it's started, the neat little communication tools on these cards keep things headed in the right direction.
The questions are based on our experience of teaching over 10,000 people how to have better sex. They draw on the experience of the world's best sex educators, and they've been used to make every conceivable type of activity go better - from a simple kiss, through to the most adventurous and elaborate act you can think of. And they're as relevant to people having a one-night stand as they are people that have been intimate for decades.
The card for 'general sexual activities' is the spot to start for most people. This works like a primer in sex-positivity, consent, and communication on a card. The card for 'kinky sex' is for those wanting to be more adventurous.
FREE ACCESS
We've reproduced them below, in full, because we believe everyone should have free access to these fundamental tools.
BUY CONSENT CARDS
You can also buy them; priced from $2 to $9 AUD each (depending on what quantity you're after), we're only aiming to cover the production cost and shipping.
LEARN TO USE THEM
If you'd like a deeper exploration of these concepts, learn how to use them by listening to a tutorial from our podcast, Curious Conversations About Sex.
BULK ORDERS
We have special bulk pricing for large orders of consent cards. For instance if you order 1000 consent cards then they're available at 20 cents each. Contact us to place a bulk order (including full details).
You may be interested in bulk pricing as a festival, sexuality event, therapist or educator etc.
SCHOLARSHIP PRICING
We have special scholarship support pricing available under certain conditions such as universities or not-for-profit events. In these cases consent cards can be ordered for free, attracting only the cost of postage.
For instance, one university has made good use of our consent card in their orientation program - contact us if you have a similar proposal with the relevant details.
If you'd like a deeper exploration of these concepts, learn how to use them by listening to a tutorial from our podcast, Curious Conversations About Sex.
BULK ORDERS
We have special bulk pricing for large orders of consent cards. For instance if you order 1000 consent cards then they're available at 20 cents each. Contact us to place a bulk order (including full details).
You may be interested in bulk pricing as a festival, sexuality event, therapist or educator etc.
SCHOLARSHIP PRICING
We have special scholarship support pricing available under certain conditions such as universities or not-for-profit events. In these cases consent cards can be ordered for free, attracting only the cost of postage.
For instance, one university has made good use of our consent card in their orientation program - contact us if you have a similar proposal with the relevant details.
FREE TUITION: HOW TO USE THE CONSENT CARD
Listen along on our podcast, Curious Coversations About Sex as Rog and Aerie go through the questions on the (original version) Curious Creatures Consent Card in detail. New and old players alike will find plenty in the way of juicy perspectives and personal stories about lessons learned the hard way.
Episode 26: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 1 of 3)
Episode 27: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 2 of 3)
Episode 28: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 3 of 3)
Episode 26: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 1 of 3)
Episode 27: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 2 of 3)
Episode 28: The Consent Card: A primer in great sex and consent! (Part 3 of 3)